tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post3723603554528347124..comments2023-10-23T12:54:08.396-07:00Comments on My Gay Teen Life-Love, Boys, and More!: E-Mail. (no crazy title but good post)John Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12545560070409713590noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-60175039441170335442010-01-12T20:19:15.092-08:002010-01-12T20:19:15.092-08:00@Octavius thank you =p
@goleftatthefork im not s...@Octavius thank you =p <br /><br />@goleftatthefork im not sure you read me right. its not the luxuries and the things she needs to do for me its more the lack of effort and the fact that even though she does nothing (we have a maid for the cleaning and all. so cant help out with much if i wanted to) she makes no effort to do the little things that matter. Which makes me mad. The work thing just made me notice the whole situation. Again I was ticked off when I wrote that e-mail so i might have used the right words at the time. <br /><br />@ceepeeca that is something i love. Even when family is just cooking they are down stairs and interacting with me. Whether it be me helping or even her just sitting and watching tv with me while she is cooking. The fact that she isnt on her own doing nothing and cares enough to be around me is a big thing. <br /><br />@Steevo i will talk to her. she might be depressed. Thanks for the advice! =pJohn Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12545560070409713590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-48075413599518196352010-01-12T18:20:41.506-08:002010-01-12T18:20:41.506-08:00she may be depressed. ask her. tell her u r piss...she may be depressed. ask her. tell her u r pissed and concerned. it may be lazy, but if she used to do stuff and keep busy, it may be depression which is a medical condition like the flu. it is way more common in winter. short daylight hours.<br /><br />ask her to go for a walk with you. exercise helps.<br /><br /> can u cook at all? like boil hot dogs, get potato salad all made at the grocerey store, they have mixed greens for salad. boil some frozen peas or beans. read and follow directions very carefully. it is not rocket science ffs.<br /><br />my hubby and i both cook... basic life skill.<br /><br />Do the best u can. Tell her ahead of time that you r gonna cook cuz u LIKE meals together.<br /><br />Or frozen fried chicken you just bake. set timers. dont do pizza unless she really likes it. aim for an adult balanced meal.<br /><br />it might get her going. worst thing is u get some decent food. ask her to teach u to cook? if she is good at it... or even ok and knows how...<br /><br />idk<br /><br />just some random thots.<br /><br />sounds rough. but at 17... <br /><br />maybe it is time to relate to her more as an adult offspring rather than her little boy.<br /><br />if u r off to uni etc soon and u r last kid at home... that is huge for a mom. tells her she is old. its a woman thing.<br /><br />contact me some way if u wanna chat<br /><br />steevo<br /><br />at 17 u can assert yerself as an adult.Steevohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17438316553489781473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-68036429098058495982010-01-12T13:56:57.423-08:002010-01-12T13:56:57.423-08:00Not bad suggestions in general, goleft. I get kind...Not bad suggestions in general, goleft. I get kinda pissed off though, when a parent decides not to prepare any meals and a guy has to go out and eat takeout. Even if there's tons of money around to do that, sometimes it might be a critical point in a guy's life to sit and connect with family over a meal. Somehow, the way JD describes it, that hot meal wasn't an excessive luxury, just something as part of 3 squares a day from his mom. <br /><br />Just a thot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-67667555921490100522010-01-12T12:26:49.746-08:002010-01-12T12:26:49.746-08:00I think some of the comments are fair but maybe yo...I think some of the comments are fair but maybe you need to take a step back and think about things from her perspective ... she has an obligation to provide for you - a roof over your head, clothes on your back and food in your belly - if she can meet those basic needs and keep you safe, it's not your job to in turn assess how those basic needs were delivered. If you want/need luxury or more than she can give, you are probably old enough to go out and make that happen through part time work, etc. Try not to forget the commitment that has made by having a child, it's a lifetime of sometimes subordinating your hopes, dreams, goals, money, time, etc for the benefit of another human being. Sometimes that burden is just downright exhausting. My suggestion - maybe try whipping up a home cooked meal and serving it to her every once in a while, or taking care of some things that weigh her down like laundry or shopping or cleaning or whatever.<br /><br />Just my 2 centsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-14005447575454814072010-01-12T01:02:28.327-08:002010-01-12T01:02:28.327-08:00Pretty fair comments to be honest.
Octavius.Pretty fair comments to be honest.<br /><br />Octavius.Octaviushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07309188965037008475noreply@blogger.com