tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post4522777455641042689..comments2023-10-23T12:54:08.396-07:00Comments on My Gay Teen Life-Love, Boys, and More!: Did that all really just happen??John Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12545560070409713590noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-55254615436498628592010-02-20T16:47:33.404-08:002010-02-20T16:47:33.404-08:00@CP; Well said again! - Wayne@CP; Well said again! - Waynewaynerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05567403191040874531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-87873697731448792042010-02-20T16:23:24.966-08:002010-02-20T16:23:24.966-08:00John, you're probably making the right decisio...John, you're probably making the right decision for now, since your mom would create more static and shit for your bro if he asked questions or showed approval of you. But it might be good to watch for 'the right time' to drop an appropriate comment to him that lets him know you are okay with yourself, and that it has nothing to do with him. Sometimes, young guys in the midst of discovering their own sexuality during puberty can become very anxious if they don't understand the truth of what being gay or str8 is all about. And your parents probably are not the best ones to tell him, since they obviously have a built-in bias.<br /><br />That moment will happen sooner than later, just be ready to be his big bro and support him in his choices. You could be the best friend he has to talk to about his stuff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-6876395951127977762010-02-20T14:00:31.667-08:002010-02-20T14:00:31.667-08:00Yeah, Black History turning into a fundamentalist ...Yeah, Black History turning into a fundamentalist religion event; didn't I warn you about 'smoke and mirrors'? :p - Wayne<br /> ps; great to see you get some exercise!waynerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05567403191040874531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-33246806440804138242010-02-20T12:53:48.155-08:002010-02-20T12:53:48.155-08:00@CP: he doesnt really know. I mean im sure he does...@CP: he doesnt really know. I mean im sure he does. My friends come over and talk so he hears it but my mom doenst want me to "tell him" because he is in a "confused time" right now going threw puberty. Yah. Its bull and homophobic on her part but wtf am I going to do. Arguing doesnt help and the less shit I bring up about the gay thing until she is 100% ok with it then the better.John Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12545560070409713590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-1079354117943012342010-02-20T12:44:57.730-08:002010-02-20T12:44:57.730-08:00Weird isn't it, how inviting church folk to a ...Weird isn't it, how inviting church folk to a student gathering totally changes stuff and how they take over without really being asked to. I don't get the direct connection between Black History and church - but hey, I guess someone wanted Jesus in on the deal. I have nothing against religious guys and prayer is cool in it's proper place but.....................well yeah.<br /><br />At least you got to do something out of the house for a bit, John; even if it totally exhausted you. Just curious, how does your younger bro handle your being gay...is he cool or confused or what?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com