tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post900126844201830133..comments2023-10-23T12:54:08.396-07:00Comments on My Gay Teen Life-Love, Boys, and More!: Lots Of Gayness...John Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12545560070409713590noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-79328805206533727452010-02-14T14:25:03.792-08:002010-02-14T14:25:03.792-08:00@CP ; - Well said! :)@CP ; - Well said! :)waynerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05567403191040874531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-27643279099930453742010-02-13T05:39:53.462-08:002010-02-13T05:39:53.462-08:00wayner wrote: "people who claim they are '...wayner wrote: "people who claim they are 'bi' should first define their concept of bisexuality"<br /><br />OKAY, so I am a bi male who has clearly known my own sexual preferences since puberty. I am equally attracted to and have bedded down with both boys and girls. To use the coarse terms, girl tits and cunt are just as appealing to me as boy ass and cock. I have enjoyed long nights in bed making passionate and ardent love to every part of both male and female bodies. LOVE, not just fucking. Cuteness of face works both ways for me. I can guarantee you that there are millions more like me, and who probably gravitate toward one gender or another to simplify social life, not due to their particular gender/sexual preference.<br /><br />I agree with wayner on asking a boy if he has had hot male sex. These days, the term gay sometimes is used to denote very effeminate males; or something that is weak and ineffective (ooooh, that's SOOO gay!). Many gay men, despite the stereotype, are not necessarily fem in speech or body language. So labeling as 'gay' can be a turnoff for a young guy just figuring himself out. As well, there are tons of basically hetero dudes who try sex with other guys for the experience, and then decide that they prefer females. So having hot sex with another boi is a good thing, and labels aren't important. <br /><br />I kinda like a word that was used a while back, that seems to have fallen off off the slang list..........samer........as in a person who prefers same-sex companions and intimacy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-7910745720084790712010-02-12T16:16:20.531-08:002010-02-12T16:16:20.531-08:00Instead of asking a guy if he is gay, ask him if h...Instead of asking a guy if he is gay, ask him if he has ever tried hot male sex; the connotations are different; no wonder young guys are confused! I have a hard time reconciling the 'bi' thing and the sexual urge. I think the sexual urge is 90% one way or the other; sexual preference is about the sexual urge, not emotional attraction; its about who you want to go to bed with, not to the movies. People who claim they are 'bi' should first define their concept of bisexuality; that would be a more honest approach. Live and let live; whatever makes you happy. Eighteen is a significant birthday; its like your first taste of adulthood, as in drink responsibly or don't drink at all and you'll have a happy birthday! :)waynerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05567403191040874531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816185220148975088.post-833918519285686472010-02-12T05:37:06.253-08:002010-02-12T05:37:06.253-08:00My roommate my first year in college used to talk ...My roommate my first year in college used to talk about women <i>all the time</i>. He didn't go on a single date the entire school year.<br /><br />He told us a story about being left alone with a girl when he was 15, when both sets of their parents went out of town, and them having sex all weekend long. Something just didn't ring true about his story.<br /><br />There were other odd things, as well. He wore makeup (foundation), was obsessed with clothes, read <i>GQ</i>, etc. This was a decade plus before metrosexuality. He also said some strange things at times.<br /><br />Fast forward 11 years . . . I finally came out. I thought about him and realized he was probably gay, too. I wrote him a letter and apologized if I'd ever hurt him with the teasing about <i>GQ</i> ("Reading <i>Gay Quarterly</i> again?" I used to say, sarcastically). I added, at the end, if you <i>are</i> gay, you're not the only one in our room who was. It was a two person room.<br /><br />A few months later, I was in town and we went out to lunch. He told me the sex-all-weekend-long story again, but, this time, he wasn't with a girl. The other boy was 16 and it was the other boy's suggestion. Something along the lines of, "We're not supposed to touch girls, right? But we get horny, right? Well, I've got some ideas, if you're game." The other boy eventually married a woman.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com