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18!!! =p

on Friday, February 26, 2010
Thats right!! Tomorrow, the 27th, I will be 18 years old. So that makes this my birthday eve if you will lol My parents got a hotel and let me have the house. They let me invite 3 of my closest friends to come spend the night and party really hard. Which, by the way, was hard and a bunch of people got mad at me cause they couldn't come, but shit happens and you move on. Right? Yes. Right.

So I had this really intense talk with my mom about being gay last night. It started with me telling her I was invited to Chippendale's, the show with naked men. To summarize: she thinks I need to experience both men and women before I "know" and that im too young and "confused" at "this age" to really know who I am attracted to. She also said that she "hopes a women comes along that turns my whole life around." When I questioned her with "why do you want me to change??" she said she didnt say that and that she meant for "experience." I tried to explain to her that im not confused and that I dont need experience. Which by the way I have had. I had sex with a women i was dating once and it was... not right to put it kindly. I didn't tell her that though because I wanted to stress the fact that I dont need to date/fuck a women to know I dont want to. I asked her if she needed to have sex with a women to know she liked men or if she was confused when she was my age and she didnt really answer my questions. The way I see it is that at least we are talking about it. Its a step in the right direction opposed to the wrong one.

Well thats about it. I'm about to have a crazy fun night. Hopefully have the best B-day till next year lol byeee

10 comments:

HMG said...

DUDE, HAPPY, almost, 18th BIRTHDAY! That sucks you can only have 3 people over at a time! I would try and ignore your mother's nagging about you being gay, it will happen as long as bigotry is around, but the sad part is that it is someone you love that should be happy about you no matter what.
Hope you have fun tomorrow and whenever you go to Chippendale's!

HMG

tman said...

happy birhday, kid... party hard, part safe!! hugs, tman<3

Sam said...

I am glad u're discussing such things with ur mother. Definitely a step in the right direction!!

I hope you have a fantabulous Birthday Eve and that your Birth Day and full year (and years to come...) be filled with joy and peace, and fun!

Octavius said...

Happy birthday chap.

Octavius.

gay Andy said...

18 and legal, WOW have fun and good luck!

CP said...

John, happy birthday - have lots of fun, and enjoy what you have achieved. More victories are on the way.

Wet Kyle said...

happy birthday!

wayner said...

That's pretty good of your parents to let you have the house for the evening. And yeah, the 'young and confused and inexperienced' thing; you know 100% what your genitals respond to; there is no confusion. You have tried sex with women and you have confirmed the sexual attraction is just not there. To pursue this further is psychologically damaging to you and the person you are deceiving. And 'turn your life around'; from what?! Being homosexual? (now the steam is coming out of my ears!) You are not perfect (no one is) but you are staying on the right track pretty good. Every parent should give their son or daughter support and understanding when they open up about their sexuality, not behave like it is a fault of some kind. But many parents have hopes and dreams for their children that are not their children's hopes and dreams, and it is hard for them to accept this. You can be proud of the fact that you are true to yourself and that is what counts. Happy 18th and beware the pitfalls that are out there as you get older. Good times and good friends are the best reward.

Anonymous said...

FYI Chippendales is a female only show. NO Guys allowed. Sorry

John Doe said...

@Anonymous: umm i totally dont call my readers idiots but i guess you are the exception. check our facts. the definitely have a "guys allowed" sign so stfu. k? thanks. people like you are the reason gays are treated like shit.

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